i little while back i lost my mother-
everything came to a standstill. I became unaware of the events
occurring around me for a while. Being very close to her i always knew what she was felt in her last days and what she wanted and when. It was a huge loss for me.
Well recently while clearing her stuff up in the cupboard and thinking of what should be passed over to whom a thought struk me. I thought all our lives we keep wanting things-sometimes this when we get this we want that.
My mother was very fond of new clothes and in her cupboard i could see this huge variety of very expensive salwar kameez some in silk some in crape and i dont know what all. And all her life she was damn particular and choosy as to what to buy and from where. She would keep them all stacked up in her cupboard neatly ironed and lined waiting for the right occasion.
As we open the newspaper evry morning we see all disputes some between a father and a son, some brothers on land, property, money - but what so we finally take??? NOTHING!
I know even after writing this whole thing i might end up in a petty fight with a friend. But all i realised is that we should'nt waste our lives cribbing about what we didnt get-instead focus on what is our hands presently.